It’s hard to put this phrase into words - old school traditional mistress.
Whilst I do most practices and styles of BDSM, I see an elegance in the more traditional presentation of BDSM. Yes, bondage and domination can be course and vulgar too, but it’s not really the angle I'm coming in from. Of course, I can make my submissive clients degraded, filthy and depraved. However, I'm drawn to old-school style and love the old imagery!
I see this overtly sexualised approach reflected on social media every day, but that is just not my style. I prefer a ladylike approach to domination. Saying that, I certainly don’t possess the ‘dancers’ elegance’ embodied by The Lady Lola and could never be the extreme punisher, like my darling friend Mistress Demetria was. Two ladies I admire greatly, and they couldn’t be more further apart.
The Lady Lola personifies an old school traditional mistress.
Power and strength from my Boss Lady - an old school traditional mistress in lots of ways.
That’s what I love about my fella dominant sisters. We are all so different. With those I make friends with, I tend to gravitate to the extremes of life. Goddess Ira used to be another (now retired) domme I was totally in oar of - a true sadist, and to watch her work, was poetry. Mistress Nikita in the USA is a sensual, mysterious and possibly the most beautiful of them all.
Totally inspirational, business woman, Sidonia Von Bork from the English Mansion, has a true passion for BDSM. I count her as one of my oldest and dearest friends. She has shaped the female domination scene over the years, and has a unique standing within it. Admirable qualities to me. Read this.
Choosing a name like The English Mansion, what else could you expect to find but an old school traditional mistress.
Mistress Vanessa is my matriarch, a woman I’ve looked up to for nearly 20 years. To me, she is an older woman who is powerful within this world. The dictionary says it so well…”Matriarchy is a social system in which females hold the primary power positions in roles of political leadership, moral authority, social privilege, and control of property at the specific exclusion of males - at least to a large degree.”
Fact: Mistress Vanessa is definitely an old school traditional mistress.
Admiration too for Madame Caramel, who is a woman driven, a Machiavellian business leader. Funny too. Rising fast too is Mistress Tess. Someone to look out for in the future.
Interestingly, as I get older I realise that I am, at least, the first definition of a matriarch. Matriarch: "A Woman Who Is Head of a Family or Tribe”. As far as being powerful within my (BDSM) family, my peers would need to be consulted for the truth. I have asked a few and they told me what they do think of me, it fits perfectly the definition of matriarch. But, this title I don't need…especially when I have so many!
Pleased to say, I'm having a wonderful and interesting life, for which I have always been grateful. I think gratitude is essential and is my driving force. It helps me with my positive mental attitude. I’ve always know that we have the power within, to transform anything that happens in ones life, into strength and positivity.
Even though I am an educated woman, it took me a long time to know that I had this many strengths. Most of all mentally and spiritually. Very rarely have I ever had anyone around to consult. I’ve always know I am my own teacher...self taught.
My approach to domination is that of an old school traditional mistress.
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