Mastering Old School BDSM: Build a solid foundation from the ground up. True mastery in BDSM comes from learning old school skills.
Starting from the fundamentals rather than just skimming the surface of this profound and multifaceted world.
Upcoming Mistress Workshop Dates 2026
Join me for my group sessions:
- February 7th
- March 7th
- April 18th
These workshops serve as true mentorship for aspiring dommes, lifestyle enthusiasts, and professional dominatrixes. Ensuring I'm there for you every step of the way. Always on hand to answer questions and provide tailored workshops.
My monthly group Mistress Workshops have run consistently for over 14 years. It's a comprehensive five-hour experience for just £250. In my studio in central London Shoreditch/Hoxton, E2.
With my guidance and ongoing mentorship, building a successful BDSM practice or business becomes achievable. I cover best practices for sessions, website setup, branding, social media strategies, safety protocols, and much more.
Beyond the Surface: What Real Fem Dom Entails
Some think being a professional Fem Dom simply means telling submissives what you want, getting your way, or sticking to beginner-friendly activities like ballbusting, facesitting, foot worship, or boot/shoe fetish? Many new dominatrixes pick up tips from social media, "monkey see, monkey do", but this often leaves them skilled at only 10-50% of this craft.
Twitter (now X) and other platforms are where most modern ladies first encounter pro domme life. But surface-level imitation misses the depth: psychological insight, theatrical presence, safety protocols, mastery, and creative scene-building that deliver truly authentic, fulfilling experiences.
Why Invest in Old School Skills with Miss Kim Rub?
- Time and Effort: Comprehensive BDSM learning demands real commitment. Not everyone is ready for it, but the rewards are immense.
- As past participants have shared: "Thank you so much! I’m so impressed and touched that you’re so generous with your time, sharing experiences and learnings...I thought your workshop was excellent."
- "Truly knowledgeable, creative and talented. I highly recommend this workshop for everyone."
Build a Solid Foundation
- Depth and Skill: Many discover BDSM online and assume it's easy, but a true deep dive reveals its intensity and richness. You'll emerge accomplished, confident, and equipped to explore all aspects safely.
Solid Foundational Learning
- Customisation and Authenticity: A strong foundation lets you tailor scenes creatively and safely, moving beyond "winging it" to provide genuine, memorable journeys based on clients' (or partners') wants, needs, and desires.
Foundation from the bottom up
- Creativity and Presence: Elevate scenes with emotional and psychological depth, infused with theatricality, joie de vivre, and charisma for unforgettable impact.
The Importance of BDSM History
Understanding BDSM's roots enriches your practice and appreciation:
- Cultural Evolution: Practices trace back to ancient civilizations (e.g., ritual flagellation in Greece or bondage in religious ceremonies), through medieval flagellation for penance, to Victorian-era discipline amid outward restraint. Each era added layers influenced by societal norms.
- Art and Literature: Before the internet, immersion came from art, literature, and culture exploring power, dominance, submission, and pain. This historical context deepens personal practice and supports broader acceptance today.
BDSM didn't begin with the current scene, it's built on frameworks from those who came before, reflecting psychology, culture, and the passage of time. Read about the book I'm featured in - Other Intimacies.
In Conclusion: Step Into Your Authentic Power
If you're ready to dive deeper into kink, fetish, and BDSM, my Mistress Workshop remains the original and most established, running regularly for over 14 years with ongoing mentorship from an experienced practitioner. I never dictate how you should dominate or what to do. Instead, I guide you to lean into your unique authenticity.
Once you've completed my workshop, I'm your mentor for life. Reach out anytime for advice or support—learning old school skills with me means you're never alone on your journey.
Get your diary out and plan ahead. Contact me to book or discuss: Call +44 7729 003220.
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