Seven dominatrix tips to think about, that will help you on your journey through life and your BDSM career.

Seven Dominatrix Tips:

1. Be yourself, everyone else is taken. Your true authentic self. Do not emulate, imitate or follow what others do. Find your own way. Work out what is your USP (Unique Selling Point) and play that up. A mistress in't one-size-fits-all. Don't be afraid to stand out. Mistresses were not made to fit in. This is an alternative career and lifestyle. Be unapologetically yourself.

Putting yourself first should be in 'Seven Dominatrix Tips.

2. Take time for yourself, out of the scene. Start the day with exercise, meditation, make plans to socialise, pursue hobbies, take up charitable causes and look after yourself both inside and out. Self development and growth is essential. None of us know it all. Read books or online, take a class or watch a educational film.

3. End toxic friendships. This can also mean love relationships and/or the clients who drain you. It's not worth that little bit on money they bring. Clear away the dead wood and new growth will happen. Only except positivity. Take control, you're the domme, after all. Self analysis too. Drop your toxic, mean spirited ways. Be kind (to yourself too).

'Have A Plan' should be listed in 'Seven Dominatrix Tips'.

4. Make sure you have dreams, aims, visions, a career path. Have bold plans, you will end up getting sick of this industry if you don't challenge yourself. Don't read the negativity of other dommes, with their whinges and the moans. They will have an effect on you, and your journey. You must put in the hard work, if you want results. Laziness shows.

5. Live in your truth. If others seem to lack manners, don't compromise yours. Say please and thank you. They are not statements of weakness. Keep yourself to yourself, but look out for others, and reach out if they need you. Believe in yourself.

6. Never compare. Improve yourself, for yourself. On the flip side, don't judge others. We are in an industry that is defined by the judgements of others. Keep it classy, think before you speak, as others will be quick to label you. We are pre-programmed with the power. Access the file.

Seven dominatrix tips is finishing with NO!

7. Say NO! Never be afraid to "no, thank you"! Never justify why. If someone asks you a question, they should be prepared for one of two answers!

We all learn the hard way, but that needs to happen sometimes. What it brings you to in the end (hopefully) is we all want to be treated with with kindness and compassion. Be that person. I truly believe I was meant to meet Mistress Dometria R.I.P., as she has taught me to be a better person. She always had time for people, she was kind and generous. Oh...and a mother-fucking-kick-ass-bitch-dominatix. Love and respect.

Hamlet Act 1, scene 3, 78–82

Polonius:
This above all: to thine own self be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.
Farewell, my blessing season this in thee!

Laertes:
Most humbly do I take my leave, my lord.

"To thine own self be true" is Polonius's last piece of advice to his son Laertes, who is in a hurry to get on the next boat to Paris, where he'll be safe from his father's long-winded speeches [see NEITHER A BORROWER NOR A LENDER BE].

That is one of my favourite quotes.

I have said it many times in my life to myself and others. Usually followed by one of my own quotes, "what you know to be true of yourself, no one can ever take that away from you"!

Be humble with an attitude of gratitude. We are all unique. Special. Amazing. Powerful. Inspiring.

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