High protocol domination is when the dominant maps out formal set of rules governing her submissive or slave.
This is likely to include acceptable behaviour for submissive in the dominant presence. It works well when there is prolonged company, or those in a Female Led Relationship (FLR). It can also come into play when instructing your sub at formal dinner parties or at public BDSM community events.
Therefore, there is no ’official’ set of rules. What constitutes high protocol is entirely up to you, however, high protocol is always led by a firm and demanding hand. Usually that of the alpha female. Whilst i’m not overtly alpha, I pull this little trick out of my bag, as and when needed.
Speech, and the language associated with it can include, requesting permission to speak is common. Or only speak when they are spoken to first. When a submissive is spoken to, he must always respond with a “Mistress, yes, ma’am”. Or whatever is your preferred address.
Demure and respectful demeanour are a given. They might be kneeling close or stool to attention, close by but always keeping their heads bowed. Permission to do anything will always be needed.
Once the high protocol domination is in place and practiced, mistakes must not be tolerated. They must always put the Mistresses desires first.
Anticipating Mistresses needs will come as the submissive gets to know her wants and need. Everything must be remembered and the slave cannot let his thoughts wander into la la land.
I'm more of a ‘service top’ dominant, which means I can sometimes struggle to notice misdemeanours, then to enforce punishment suitable. There are some Mistresses who love high protocol as gives them a clear boundaries, and they love to micro manage.
The use of a mantra sets the scene. I have all my boys greet me with a mantra. It doesn’t have to be long but it does set a positive tone, whilst ritualising your meeting.
High protocol domination is when the dominant maps out formal set of rules governing her submissive or slave.
Prior to any aspect of BDSM play, the rules for anything should be discussed and agreed, no more so than high protocol domination. It’s simple, sit down I write a list:
Job tasks; cleaning, butler, maid, waiter, gardener etc
Formal titles and language
Positions
Punishments
Prior to any aspect of BDSM play, the rules for anything should be discussed and agreed, no more so than high protocol domination.
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