Collars of all kinds are often seen on folks in session, and at BDSM and fetish events. It’s also common to hear people talk about “being collared”.
Assumptions and preconceptions about collars and collaring are common. Especially around ‘wanting to be collared’, with some thinking its just a case of asking and it's a given. Regular clients are encouraged to see it as a goal to be collared.

What does it mean?
Usually wearing a collar is a show of submission. It helps a slave to get into the right headspace. It may also imply he is an owned submissive. However, in my rule book this has to be earned. It is not a given easily.
There are a lot of different styles and designs; dog collars, corset collars, posture collars, solid metal, fashion chain or pearls etc. The lock is optional. A identification tag is optional The choice is down to individual preferences. Or if wanting to wear their collar 24/7 it would need to be a design that is appropriate to wear at work, or when out in public.

There are some events where submissives are required to wear a collar. High protocol events such as femdom Gynarchy Governance.
Ownership and being collared
Meaningful symbol of commitment, like that of a wedding band. The collar on the submissive indicates possession. and will accept the collar as a decoration of loyalty and dedication. Prior to this a submissive might first be told they are ‘Under Consideration’.
Protocols, rules, longevity must be able to demonstrate before earning the collar. There is no right or wrong way to these formalities, it's what works for you. The status boost for the submissive is an added bonus, but remember a professional doesn’t have to have collared subs. My boy Mr Brown below looking very pleased to be collared.
Collaring Ceremony
BDSM collaring ceremonies are a rituals that symbolises a deep commitment between a Dominant and a submissive. Here's an overview based on common practices and sentiments within the BDSM community:
- Symbolism: The collar, often seen like a wedding ring, is a symbol of ownership, commitment, loyalty and or control within a Dominant/submissive (D/s) relationship. It represents the power exchange where the submissive consents to be under the Dominant's instruction, protection, and care. Symbolising the submissive's ongoing learning and development in their role.
- Permanent Collar: Given during a collaring ceremony, this signifies a long-term or permanent commitment. This is akin to marriage in the BDSM context.
- Ceremony Details: My ceremonies are very private affairs between my slaves and I.
- Rituals: The ceremony might include reading vows, signing a contract that outlines the terms of their D/s relationship, and the actual act of collaring takes place in my play space.

- Consent and Agreement: A real gold-key given to me by one of my gentlemen perverts is prior to the commitment of collaring. The key is a symbol of devotion, connection and high regard. Discussions about expectations, limits, and devotion are crucial before the key is presented to me. Collaring may or may not take place subsequently.
When a collaring ceremony is planned it acts as a profound acknowledgment of the relationship's depth and dedication and commitment unique to the dynamics of BDSM relationships.
Ceremonies can certainly be a very special moment
Furthermore, whilst usually associated with being submissive; there are dominants who also like to wear a collar occasionally.

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