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Attending Miss Kim’s mistress workshop was a delight from start to finish.  She welcomes you into her space (which is as much of an aesthetic pleasure as she is to behold) with an air of professionalism and approachability that made me feel at ease from the moment I stepped through the door. Miss Kim is phenomenally thorough in her teaching, she provides an abundance of visual and physical aids as well as giving numerous personal examples;  ensuring all forms of learning are catered to.  She is not only knowledgeable but captivating in her teaching- she can take you from peals of laughter to deep contemplation in an instant. At times I was beguiled simply by her presence alone; the gleam in her eyes and the flourish of her turn of phrase.  It is clear from her workshops that not only does she have a great wealth of expertise to draw from but a passion for the world of fetishes and kinks, a passion for being a creative and dedicated mistress, and most of all a passion for sharing what she knows and for educating others. The workshop's content is highly informative for both novices and those with more experience and above all she teaches you to be confidently curious, how to guide your own learning and discover your own style, character and methods. Not only does she give invaluable education for pursuing a career as a mistress, she also educates and informs you on exploring BDSM practices and understanding the varying aspects of what it means to be a  mistress or a submissive. I could not recommend this workshop highly enough. Miss Kim will not only educate, inspire and intrigue you, you will have a truly enjoyable and invaluable afternoon in an authentic setting with likeminded wonderful women. Sheela Killer 

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Five stars for Miss Kim’s Mistress Workshop! Miss Kim invites you into her beautifully crafted and loved space with a glass of bubbly. The workshop covers a wide variety of subjects and then more. Miss Kim is an excellent teacher, balancing playful humour with deep sage knowledge. You’ll leave the workshop feeling inspired- full of confidence and curiosity for the next chapters of your kinky journey. You simply must go! Freddie Love

It was such an amazing and informative class & I enjoyed meeting all of you! Thank you again, Miss Kim! x 

Will be scouring through your list of tips & links. Will definitely be looking into your other workshops soon! I have put the upcoming Queen Bee society drinks into my diary, and will hopefully be seeing some of you at a future Club Pedestal night (I am still checking if I can make the one this month)  Have a fabulous rest of Spring 🌸 Best, Medusa ✨🐍

I really enjoyed last Saturday's workshop - it helped me to focus on the advantages of starting with a smaller selection of services so I can expand when I feel confident to do so. I've also started writing up ideas so I can easily revise them. I do need to speak to you about online sessions and rituals for online domination (I was asked about it yesterday) 

Thank you soooo much for the dungeon list, the formula and the tips - a lot to take in but guaranteed I will not run out of creative ideas! Have a lovely sunny weekend, all. See you soon! Revel xx

Hello!  Hope you are well, thank you again for the lovely workshop and all the amazing tips and information on the list!  Can’t wait for the next one, I might be able to squeeze one in before pedestal although I’m travelling a bit so perhaps might have to be early June. Wish you a lovely weekend and see you soon! 

As an aspiring pro-domme, I wanted to set myself up with the best education possible to ensure that I was prepared for my first sessions. In order to gain the knowledge & confidence required, I looked no further than London's Queen Bee- Miss Kim, who is known to have launched the career of many a successful Domina. Although nervous initially, I immediately felt at ease after a warm welcome in Miss Kim's comfortable and private dungeon space in East London. The other ladies attending that day were a real mixed bag- an even split between lifestyle and aspiring pro-Dommes- all so lovely and equally excited to be there. I knew the lesson was several hours long, and having ADHD, I was a bit concerned about my ability to sit still and be a good student- but oh my- it flew by, and I was rapt with attention, hanging off Miss Kim's every word, and mentally filing each amazing tip she offered. The curriculum was both comprehensive and fascinating- taking you through so many elements of being dominant, from your first steps in choosing a name, all the way through how tools can be used in a session, and of course, best practices for safety. It was a wonderful day, and I enjoyed every moment of being taught by someone with such wide-reaching expertise. I left feeling inspired and empowered- I would recommend this workshop to any woman wanting to find her inner Mistress- whether personally or professionally. Thanks so much ❤ Alex

Miss Kim’s workshop is a one stop all you need to know fun factual and informative about the Dom world. Lauren xxx

Miss Kim Rub is a generous teacher and wealth of knowledge and experience. Her workshop is informative, inspiring, and totally pleasant to partake in. The hours flew by and I was left with the confidence and a framework for how to move forward in my exploration as a dominatrix. I would recommend her one-on-one or group workshop for any curious or aspiring domme. Thank you again Kim! Looking forward to connecting over the last bit soon. Abby 

Wow!  Where do I begin?! I took one of Miss Kim Rub’s workshops today and I will be forever grateful for the experience!  Miss Kim is a natural educator, full of knowledge, wisdom, creativity, innovation and experience which reaches far and wide. She delivers her content with eloquence, confidence, inspiration, variety and humour. She is organised and professional, yet relaxed, down to earth and in control throughout.  She has a very open, warm and extremely approachable demeanour which would put anyone at ease - and it begins as soon as she greets you at the door and remains constant throughout. Any questions asked of her will be treated as a quest for knowledge and responded to accordingly. Her wealth of experience is liberally shared and I particularly enjoyed the way she naturally veered on to appropriate asides to impart extra insight with exciting and interesting anecdotes before effortlessly returning to the topic at hand.  There isn’t a hint of arrogance, or a condescending tone, even though she is fully aware that she knows more than you! This wonderful lady is a tutor for the love of imparting knowledge to all who seek it - irrespective of the level they are currently at; she seeks to empower others, whether they are rusty and looking to get back on top form, completely new to the scene, or well seasoned and seeking to add something new to their repertoire and she does so with grace and poise. Miss Kim will take you on a voyage of self discovery and encourage you to be an individual and an indomitable force as a mistress - in a style that works for you - not to be a carbon copy of herself. She is clearly not teaching for monetary gain (the reasonably priced workshops are testament to that). There is no clock watching, no pressure, no moments of boredom or feeling overwhelmed and it’s clear that Miss Kim absolutely loves - no, ADORES - what she does (and has done for over 3 decades!). Her enthusiasm shines through with every topic that she covers and no stone is left unturned. I left feeling a sense of euphoria knowing I had truly spent the day with a lady who has mastered her profession and utterly wants to see myself and others who go to her for knowledge, to thrive.  I also felt quite smug that I had been imbued with a bountiful supply of information to enhance my dominatrix journey 100 fold, from one of THE best in the field. I can’t praise her highly enough!  Thank you Miss Kim Rub! ❤️ Lady Rose

Miss Kim Rub is without question the most welcoming, experience and helpful teacher. She is an excellent mentor and host. She exudes a wealth of knowledge and advice that is succinct and relevant. Her ease in passing on her Dominatrix skills are second to none. Once you’ve enlisted her she’ll be there for you to impart advice on the phone, emailing or keeping in touch though her social media. I give her my full endorsement as a perfect mentor and unique woman. I hope we will be friends for as long as she will put up with me ha ha. Love Mistress Gypsie Rose. 

I have absolutely loved Miss Kim’s Mistress Workshop. It was full of insightful information and priceless tips. Miss Kim is extremely charismatic and made me feel very relaxed from the beginning. I feel so much more confident and have left with a plan of action and lots of ideas to develop. I can’t wait to attend more of Miss Kim’s workshops and keep growing in this exciting journey. Mistress Emerald Eyes.

Thanks Miss Kim for an Amazing Dominatrix workshop which was insightful, interesting and at times hilarious. I can’t wait to try things out and will definitely  keep you updated. Love all the follow up and connections offered post session too- excellent after care. Can’t wait to see you again xx

I enjoyed meeting Miss Kim at her pro- domme workshop. I would definitely recommend it for everyone interested in expanding their insight of BDSM. Her tips were invaluable, including for those who are considering setting themselves as a pro domme . I loved her enthusiasm for passing on her knowledge, and the passion she has for the subject. Thank you for the lovely and exciting afternoon! Mistress D

I took Miss Kim Rub's Mistress Workshop virtually during the pandemic and it was beyond what I expected. I was provided with so much information, from basic BDSM 101 to information on building myself as a professional Dominatrix to research links and techniques, everything was covered in great detail in a professional yet fun and personal way. My questions were all answered in full, I never felt rushed and even after the workshop ended I was able to reach out if I needed any further help. An investment well worth making. Kindest regards and thank you again for your time, Valkyrie x

I found the workshop engaging, motivating confidence building with great advice and invaluable information. All of it made total sense, as well as clarifying where I need to be. All of this without giving me a template or script. I expected to come away with a few gems, instead I came away with a crown. Kind regards, Mistress Ruth

I have attended a Mistress Workshop with Miss Kim via Zoom. She not only met but also exceeded my expectations. Truly knowledgeable, creative and talented. I highly recommend this workshop for everyone – from those wishing to spice things up to professionals.  Thank you. Mistress Hedone

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I spent the most amazing afternoon with Miss Kim Rub, doing her Mistress Workshop via Zoom. Miss Kim made me feel really welcome and we had a great time. It was a fun, educational and through-provoking session, where we got to drill down into lots of aspects of dominance and BDSM. I've been on the scene as a lifestyle Domme for many years, but Miss Kim taught me a lot. Fun D/s ideas that I could use straight away, plus a lot of safety advice that you don't always hear as a lifestyler. Miss Kim also gave me new ways to think about the D/s lifestyle and what I should expect from my submissives. I can't recommend Miss Kim Rub and her Mistress Workshop highly enough. It was an empowering and enjoyable experience. Mistress Virago

I spend a wonderful afternoon at Miss Kim’s workshop yesterday and after feeling nervous upon arriving she soon put me at ease and I met some other wonderful women too. I am a bit of a beginner and felt that this workshop gave me so much more information, knowledge and lots of giggles and smiles! Already putting it into practice! I highly recommend going it’s a great opportunity to have fun and meet others. Thank you Miss Kim! Love Anna

I've just done a 4hr video call with Mistress Rub . A very knowledgeable, and a person who has taught me lots in such a short space of time. I would definitely recommend this to anyone who is wanting to learn. Cannot wait to put it all into practice. Lee 

Dear Kim, thank you for such a wonderful afternoon, in the one to one Workshop I had with you.I was initially a little nervous, but was soon put at ease by her engaging personality and her equally funny anecdotes. I found myself opening up like I have done never before with a stranger, I went to Miss Kim to help me in progressing to be a better Mistress to my husband, Her in-sight and tips that she passed on opened up my mind where before it had been closed (I think its the Mushroom effect, Kim). I would recommend this workshop to anyone that wants to develop their skills for business or personal use, I left feeling that I have made a friend in Miss Kim and hope to carry on growing under her guidance. Mistress Jacqueline x

@KimClubRUB is amazing. I was doing dom before but Kim has guided and educated me. All of us dommes start somewhere. We ladies with domme in our bones embrace it. Ladies interested? Do it! You won't be disappointed. An amazing mentor, guide and educator. Mistress Nix

Dear Kim, I had such a fabulous time with you, that I am going to book more workshops. Short, sharp & to the point, (who doesn’t appreciate that?) it was fun, informative, creative, practical &  motivating. My partner really appreciated the difference your input made in my play style, I can truly say he went to some places he probably never thought he would be able to.  So there you have it, two new fans of Miss Kim’s magic sessions 🤩. It’s also great to know there is someone there if we (the group) get stuck! Best wishes, Cherie

Miss Kim's course was a great introduction at starting your own Domme business. Myself I am normally sub but her sessions gave me insight into how much work my Dom does and how I can help. Additionally, it prepared me to be more forceful in my demands and expectations in my first experience this week as a Domme. Her lighthearted sharing helped me realize improvisation is a great trait and that basic kitchen items like spatulas and recycle bags make great BDSM tools. I would recommend that future sessions have some hands on learning maybe with a slave 😉 Stacey.

Dear Miss Kim, Thank you a lot for hosting us, for your time and attention! The workshop was great, when in London next time, will definitely of join one of your hosted parties or advertised events.  Now I feel more confident, taking my first steps and researching local scene. Sorry for not reverting earlier, I was a bit overwhelmed with all information, readings etc., etc.

It is great to know that everyone interested can start, and your help is very much appreciated! Have a lovely day,  Elina

Hello Kim, I have been a little delayed in sending you this email as I am out of the country visiting my daughter in Italy.  I would really like to say I had a great day at your mistress workshop last Saturday, it was fun especially the spanking lol and you was a fabulous teacher so down to earth and friendly and I look forward to many more to come.

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I have put all the events dates in my diary and I'm hoping to come to them all as I really want to be a part of it and only wish I had done it before. Thank you Kim for a lovely day, I am back on Friday so catch up soon. All the best sweetie. Julie

I loved attending the 5 hour workshop. I was utterly impressed by the energy of this fantastic woman. She kept her enthusiasm intact for the 5 hours of the duration of the workshop which was engaging and informative. She certainly shared her wide knowledge in an accessible way. After the workshop, becoming a domme feels like a few steps closer! Elisa x

Great, informative workshop. Left with tons of useful tips and knowledge. Kim is a great host and I look forward to attending one of her many other workshops in the near future.

Thank you for these tips and THANK YOU for all the knowledge you shared with us on Saturday. It really was so informative and so special to get to speak with someone with the level of experience that you have. I'd love to come to the dungeon party on the 4th. All the best, Morrigan x

Hi Miss Kim! I had a really great time and learnt A LOT. You made me feel so comfortable and I was able to get so much information out of the session. Also, thanks again for that list of tips! I don't know what I was expecting but there are so many, it's going to be a lot of fun working through them all. Hopefully I'll see you at the dungeon party next month, fingers crossed. Velda

I attended Miss Kim’s workshop with no idea what to expect. I wanted to learn tips and tricks I could use at home to expand on the fun my partner and I have been having. Miss Kim tailored the workshop perfectly to suit my needs; reducing the information about going pro, and putting more emphasis on great ways to guarantee home scenes that would take my partner’s breath away. It was clear though that whatever I had wanted to explore Miss Kim would have been able to help, her knowledge and experience were plain to see and she was a great teacher. I can’t recommend the workshop enough as a great way to expand your knowledge and learn from the best in a fun and friendly way. M M

I recently attended a professional dominatrix/mistress training session with Miss Kim Rub. After arriving at Miss Kim's home, which was welcoming, I did not know what to expect, would it be heaven or hell!! Miss Kim put me at ease and the session was very informative & knowledgable with some extraordinary tips!! The session has given me confidence & knowledge to take this further beyond the bedroom into a semi-professional mistress role. Anyone thinking of booking a session, please do... it is definitely money well spent.  I cannot recommend Miss Kim enough and her wealth of experience is priceless.' Miss C

Firstly I want to thank you for an amazing time at the workshop.  For beginners, it was so informative and I am sure my friend will agree you made us feel so welcomed and at home.  I learnt so much in the short time and looking forward to starting my new adventure in the world of a dominatrix. D and C

I very much enjoyed the Mistress Workshop. I’m not new to the lifestyle but acquired lots of useful information and tips.  

Kim herself has a very friendly manner and presented the workshop in a very relaxed setting, which suited me perfectly. I would highly recommend. Sam Xx

Good morning Kim! Thank you so much for such an informative and entertaining afternoon, and really really kind of you to arrange the fly past. I’m having a crazy week but will digest and take action in near future. See you soon! Whirl (aka Lady Cordelia Lash)

Mistress Kim is a beautiful lady with soft hair and fierce eyes. She can easily read into me and somehow I felt I wanted to be a sub in her hands. However, the lesson is about how to be a domme. It was really helpful as I realised maybe I am a switch. And all the technical parts , Kim explained with a lot of details and  past experiences. It is fun with great experience. I cannot wait to get back to sharpen my skills with Mistress Kim.

I was quite nervous for my One to One Mistress Workshop with Miss Kim but I needn’t have been because as soon as she opened the door and smiled, my nerves disappeared. What a lovely lady she is! Friendly, knowledgeable and with a great sense of humour - I had a lovely afternoon. We talked at great length, I learned so much and I was able to put into practice some of what she taught me that very evening . . .If you are thinking of taking the first step, go see Miss Kim. Ruth x

This was a very enjoyable workshop. Miss Kim was knowledgable, funny and caring, sharing with us her experience, tricks and tips. I left with more friends to share my clubbing adventures with and a lot of ideas I can’t wait to put into practice. Hope to see more workshops from Miss Kim in the future cause I would definitely participate! Vx

I highly recommend workshops they're both informative and such fun. Miss Kim is an excellent mentor and a wonderful woman. Warmest Wishes, Sisi x

Miss Kim's workshop made me feel safe to explore all my desires - no question was off limits! Thank you x

Thank you Miss Kim for a brilliant workshop on Saturday. The afternoon far exceeded my expectations, lots of useful information ( and laughter ) delivered in a relaxed and professional manner. I would recommend anyone new to the scene or ladies wanting a good afternoon out to attend one of your workshops. Best wishes Hilary

I took Miss Kim's session the other day. I was so amazed-- she taught me so much!! It was than my expectation!! I can highly recommend taking her class if somebody is interested in BDSM. I felt she has Charisma as Queen B and she is true beauty both inside and outside. Her class is very worth taking for beginners and also advanced, even to be a professional!! Thank you so much for fabulous class, Miss Kim❤️️ Best, Mistress Sake

Absolutely loved Miss Kim's workshop! I've been in and out of the scene for a few years but I learnt so much. I can't imagine a better guide into the world of Femdom than Miss Kim, I'd definitely recommend the workshop to anyone even mildly curious. Wish I'd come 5 years ago! Emily x

Wow Miss Kim, goes without saying but she is absolutely gorgeous. I felt very special in Miss Kim's company and treated wonderfully with bubbles, tea and biscuits. Her workshop was fascinating I was mesmerised by everything she did and said, determined not to miss a thing. The knowledge she has is vast I wanted to stay for days to learn it all. Absolutely wonderful afternoon and I can’t wait to see her again at future mistress events. Biddy

Miss Kim's enthusiasm and inventiveness are infectious. She's welcoming, down to earth and a fount of knowledge. I really value the afternoon I spent in a 1-1 workshop and look forward to seeing her again soon!

A fun, educational introduction to taking power in relationships for women. Kim's experience is obvious as she shares her tips and tricks with great generosity and openness of heart. A great day out to find your mistress persona and be supported in confidently taking your first (or next) steps towards becoming the Domme you want to be. Cassandra

Wow, what an amazing workshop, I didn't go in with many expectations but have come out beaming from this workshop! On arrival we were given a glass of Cava and did some introductions, I felt relaxed from the start and it made you feel like you were meeting with old friends to discuss the ins and outs of the Mistress Lifestyle. The group was made up of Lifestyle Mistresses and those wanting to progress to Pro Domme. Miss Kim was wonderful and showed her very witty side which had us in fits of giggles many times, a beautiful person inside and out and very knowledgable in the subject area. We were shown erotic spanking, by Miss Kim, and rope demos by the lovely Bella. Many useful tips were discussed throughout the workshop and I'm glad that Miss Kim summed these up in a 'takeaway' email as there were so many to remember, I'll never have quite the same visit to a B&Q store after those!!! It made me come away feeling very excited for the future and I feel like I've made some great new friends too! Thank you Miss Kim x

Thanks so much Kim for a wonderful one-to-one Mistress workshop! You manage to be the perfect blend of welcoming, informative, light-hearted and inspirational, with so many great tips which I look forward to putting into practice. Your advice on planning a scene particularly stands out for me, and I think will make a big difference to my play in future! Lexi

Dear Kim. Thank you for the inspiring, efficient and funny afternoon. I already started to write rules. I feel confident and strong. Like a mistress should. Hope to see you again. Bettina

Super lovely workshop with Miss Kim. Comfortable atmosphere, a bit of bubbles, great demonstrations and great chats about everything Mistress-related. All questions were welcome. And there was cake! Unbeatable. Thanks lovely Miss Kim!

Hello Kim! It was great to participate in another course run by you. Mistress workshop was something I wanted to do for a long time. Exploring the subject, exchanging ideas and sharing experiences with other ladies helps to build confidence. Your class was extremely informative, inspiring and funny. I believe everyone felt comfortable and welcome during the workshop. Thank you for all the "insides", instructions, warnings, recommendations and Champagne! You should definitely consider writing a book.xx, Sara

The Mistress Workshop was firstly a lot of fun and secondly provided me with a plethora of information and knowledge from Miss Kim. I now have lots more in my tool kit and I'm even more prepared now when I am Mistress. Gemma.

I saw my first client as a pro Domme yesterday and had a great session! I was quite nervous at the beginning, but settled in quickly and really enjoyed it. Your workshop played a big part in giving me the confidence to do this kind of work and not feel like I have to spend a fortune on fetish gear. I used my tights to tie the wrists, as a blindfold and to tie the ankles...my slave loved it! He even managed to make a cup of tea with wrists and feet tied 🙂 Your advice on poppers was particularly precious as my slave wanted to use one, I kept it under my control as it really does stink! Anyway, it went a lot better than I expected and my client asked to see me again, so a heartfelt thank you! Mistress Silk. All the best, Kim x

Tremendous fun as well as being packed with nitty-gritty, practical advice, creative tips and plenty of food for thought (cake & cava included). I came away with tons of ideas and useful reference points. Whether your a seasoned fetishist looking to go pro or simply curious, this workshop pitches well at all levels and Kim was a warm and articulate host. A very inspiring afternoon on an otherwise dreary winter's day - cheers Kim!

A great workshop by Mistress Kim, as someone with a partner who has been on the scene for 25 plus years it has given me so much confidence in unleashing the best of my inner mistress (already!) I would recommend it to any woman who wants to enhance her own enjoyment and learn the ins and outs! The workshop is informative, insightful and so much fun!! It was so great meeting you...can't wait to learn more! 

I had a fabulous afternoon at Miss Kim's Mistress Workshop! I left with a wealth of knowledge about how to be a tantalising, creative and safe Mistress, and the confidence to go out and play. Miss Kim is not only one of the most knowledgable in the business, but has a fantastic sense of humour that will make even the most nervous newcomers feel at ease. Highly recommended! 

Thank you so much Kim for yesterday's workshop. I had lots of fun and laughs as well as learning so much! I came as a novice to BDSM etc, wanting to explore my adventurous, dominant side and hopefully make a career out of it. And I left as a girl with so much more information and guidance on how to develop my skills and learn more about the whole scene. I didn't know where to start when I first became interested in being a professional mistress because I don't know anyone in the scene/community, but when I came home I felt so much more confident about where to look and what to do to start my business as a Pro Domme. Thanks for being so lovely, friendly and funny and making us all feel so comfortable. I'm excited and looking forward to getting into action and becoming a an all powerful mistress, I can't wait! 😉

The workshop was really fun and interesting. As someone fairly new to all this, it was great to get so much information and advice to help me decide what I might want to do next. I laughed a lot and got to meet a great bunch of women too. A great afternoon for those starting to explore with much food for thought.

I opted for the private session and can honestly say it was the most fun, informative and relaxed experience I could have wished for. The session was conducted in an informal fashion with a mixture of PowerPoint, practical demonstrations (poor cushion) and good old fashioned conversation with questions and experience sharing. Mistress Kim is an incredibly eloquent, experienced and humorous woman who encouraged me to ask questions (and I did ask some very stupid ones!) and answered them with practical insight and intelligence. Go, enjoy, relax, and she also provides cake! Nik x

Hi Kim, Thanks for the tips and all the links. I really enjoyed the workshop. It was not only good fun but it was very informative too. It definitely got me wanting to explore this area further. Best wishes, Kinga

Hi Kim, Thank you for a very informative, thought-provoking and downright utterly hilarious workshop on Saturday. I thoroughly enjoyed myself and meeting all the other ladies. Thanks again. Kind regards, Fi  aka Transvision_Vamp

Apologies for taking over a week to get back to you to say a big "Thank You" for the lovely fun . . . and informative . . . Mistress Workshop. I've already been putting some of your excellent pointers to good use . . . hence my delay in emailing!!! I really enjoyed the relaxed and friendly atmosphere and would certainly recommend the workshop to any other ladies looking for advice and helpful hints. And your follow-up list is a wonderful reference point to keep going back to for reminders . . . and fun giggles!!!

Thank you so much again . . . and I'm looking forward to the 18th Birthday Club Rub. See you there! Xxx - K (Mistress Modesty Ablaze)

Miss KimThank you ever so much for a wonderful enlightening afternoon. I was quite nervous and unsure when I arrived but you soon settled my nerves. You were friendly, welcoming and put me at my ease very quickly. I felt like I had known you for years as you are so easy to talk to. The session was informative and covered all the areas I expected plus more tips and practical advise. I hope that I can put all your ideas and suggestions into practice and make a wonderful Mistress. Thanks again.

The workshop was incredibly friendly and delivered in a fun and approachable manner. Kim was very supportive and provided the confidence necessary to begin a journey into female dominance - thank you! Regards K x

Dear Miss Kim,Thank you so much! I'm so impressed and touched that you're so generous with your time, sharing experiences and learnings with us less travelled. It makes me regret slightly that I have over the last 7 years or so not really interacted with the wider BDSM community in London. So much to learn. Thank you. I thought your workshop was excellent, very suitable both for those who already have a few slaves on tap, and those who have more limited experience. Exchanging ideas and tips in a group of open-minded women was fantastic, and you used your own personal experience to frame our questions and comments. Invaluable. I’m very grateful. The afternoon really was an inspiration, I recently left my office job  and seriously think about part-time pro-Domme work. I knew there was a lot to learn, and I’m very excited about starting the journey. Thanks ever so much, see you soon! xxx

Hi Kim, Thank you for the follow up email - you have possibly the world's greatest imagination! My feedback on the workshop would be that I simply had the most fabulous afternoon, and I feel you've unleashed the kinky beast within! And for the first time in my adult life, I'll be embracing shopping trips to Ikea and B&Q with a different perspective ;-). Lou x

Amazing day, certainly gave me lots to think about! Kim kept it light and real and that’s what I’ll remember the most! Emily

Good afternoon Miss Kim,Just got back to Lincolnshire, and my head has been full of thoughts. I wanted to thank you for truly amazing day, it was really lovely to meet you (and your assistant - who had an awesome bottom btw) I came away excited and inspired and my love of BDSM has grown stronger. Kind regards, Lady T 

Dear Miss Kim,Thank you so much for yesterday! What a wonderful delightful afternoon! I will respond more properly including a quote you can use later, but I wanted to maximise my chances of coming to Mistress Vanessa's party by replying early...:-) pretty please, Mistress?  Have a lovely rest if the day, I will respond more properly later. Xxx Mistress Willow

Dear Kim, an enlightening and light hearted afternoon, thank you. Great fun and a nice bottom being correctly spanked. I think you  gave wonderful opportunity for discussion and experience sharing. The overall impression was of humour in a taboo subject. The inexperienced went away with new confidence and ideas to build upon. The experienced had blown away cobwebs with sisterhood. and a few ideas, uses for tights and household objects spring to mind. All those years of your experiences in the scene were obvious and very interestingly shared with the class. Regards KQ

Dear Miss Kim, Thanks so much for your time, imagination and attention at the Mistress Workshop! It really helped both with practical skills and with thinking creatively and in a fun way about everyday life and the lifestyle. A safe, warm and humorous environment for a newcomer, and with lots of links and info to follow up. I've signed up for more training and invested in some stuff. Hoping to see you this Saturday or at a later event, Sue

Thanks so much! The workshop helped me a lot with the concept of structuring a session. I am feeling utterly inspired now and am eager to put all I learned  into practice. (Marzanna)

As a married 'previously vanilla' career woman, you can imagine my intrepidation at attending a mistress workshop. Kim made the experience very easy, lighthearted and information. She explained all the basics but also provided significant depth and insight on specific questions the group had. I would highly recommend to anyone who wants to get a deeper insight into the ‘tricks of the trade' within the art that is Domination. Best wishes! Bee x

To anyone who is slightly curious, intrigued or even full on fetish mad- you will learn something new and hoot with laughter while doing so with the outrageously practical Miss Kim Rub.  Handy tips on alternative uses for kitchen implements, suggestions for erotic applications of a birthday candle- Miss Kim kept me enthralled for the afternoon, as I explored taboos by the dozen.  I winced, I gasped but mostly I roared laughing! By the end of the session I defy you not to have discovered your Mistress alter ego and at least one or two items to extend your bedroom repertoire. Miss Kim lives life to the full, and revels in danger and daring combined with drama, creativity and an unashamed sense of the ridiculous.  So go for it - you know you want to….DarkStar

Dear Mistress Kim, I would really like to thank you so much for your Mistress Workshop. Not only was it an enjoyable afternoon but I found it most motivating and feel like it's boosted my confidence so much. It was so motivating that I've ordered a few of the books from amazon that you had on display and I can't wait to read them. Thank you so much for everything. Kind regards, Tracey

Review on the Love, Lust and Latex website by the lovely @SpikeyO. http://www.lustlovelatex.com/26/yes-miss-kim/

Hi Kim, I immensely enjoyed last Saturday Mistress workshop. It was very well structured and filled with creative and useful tools on how to become a Pro-Dom. Since I've attended your informative workshop I have become more aware of the different types of Mistresses, Slaves, Sub type, and within these categories the diversity of personalities. It had not occurred to me that when a man enjoys receiving pain (Masochist) doesn't mean that he likes to be told what to do or being humiliated. Another area I like to highlight of the session was the two demonstrations. I found The rope Bondage demo very skilful and the spanking quite Exotic…I highly recommend this beginner Mistress Workshop to any lady out there initiating in this wonderful journey of becoming a Pro-Dom or who wishes to pleasure her partner with endless role plays. Whichever the reason for attending the workshop it will be beneficial for all the parties involve… Josephine.

Huge thanks for the workshop last Saturday. Thoroughly enjoyed learning and sharing, and loved being amongst women with such different approaches to dominance. The ideas and tips you shared with us were great, the rope was blissful and I came away feeling much more aware of what I want and how to get it. Definitely worth the journey, and I'd recommend it to any woman exploring BDSM - whatever stage she's at. Miss Caroline

Hello Kim, I would recommend the Mistress Workshop to anybody. I had a wonderful afternoon, full of useful information, knowledge that I can use with partner or on professional level. Love the demonstrations! Erika xx

I thoroughly enjoyed the Mistress workshop on Saturday. I learned a lot and there were loads of great tips and tricks to help if you are new to Female Domination. I especially loved Santiago's Shibari workshop, it was beautiful and he really explained it well, and it was great that we all got to have a go at tying, and also at being tied. Kim infused the workshop with her sparkly personality and great sense of humour, and I was made to feel very welcome and at ease from the start. I would definitely recommend this experience to any woman wishing to dip her toes into the wonderfully intoxicating world of Femdom. Fun, relaxed, informative and I made some new friends too! Thank you so much. xx

Couldn't make a group Mistress Workshop with Kim but she very kindly arranged a 1-2-1 one afternoon. Kim is fabulous to meet and is extremely generous sharing her time and expertise with you. She is very welcoming, full of inspiring, deliciously devilish ideas and sage practical advice which made for a hugely worthwhile experience. I had a fair amount of play-time behind me and wanted to find out more about the professional side of Mistress-ing but I'd highly recommend joining one of Kim's Workshops, whatever your motivation may be for learning/trying more or your previous involvement. J x

I won't deny that I was slightly nervous as well as excited about attending Miss Kim's Mistress workshop. I needn't have worried at all! Miss Kim very quickly put us at ease, she is full of fun, inspiration and ideas. It was a brilliant afternoon and gave me the confidence I was lacking in firstly being able to openly talk about the kinds of things I like as well as ideas as how to put them into action. The ropejester was fantastic, again full of ideas and information. I would highly recommend this workshop to anyone interested in exploring what it is to be a Mistress. Thanks Miss Kim, Pandora's box is well and truly open!!! Lady J xxx

Dear Miss Kim, I would just like to say a BIG Thank you for a fantastic 'mistress' workshop on Saturday! I went along totally unaware of what the workshop would involve & a little apprehensive.. Within minutes I'd forgotten any fear & was enjoying it all so much. Not only are you so lovely & friendly, also extremely glam, personable & fun! (forget my previous thoughts of latex clad, heels like spikes, hair pulled taught, eyes like ice & a whip with spikes!!!) I'm laughing!! The afternoon went in a flash! You broke things down & explained all thoroughly., no question was a stupid question at all. We had such a great time and learnt so much, I now know I could confidently be a Mistress of many forms, again so well explained.

Thanks also to Rope Jester.. I've never witnessed a length of Rope thrown out like a sensual wave & extension of a body. I think the entire room was secretly screaming 'tie me tie me' !!! gain what fun & how useful!!! I feel like my eyes are no longer only half open! I'm a fully fledged Rabbit in the headlights! Really, I can't express how great it was & how well put across you made it all! Thank you again & I look forwards to seeing you at Rub club very soon! X

 wanted to say a big thanks for the workshop last Saturday! It exceeded my expectations!! I came along to learn how to start as a Pro Domme and had been wondering if the workshop was going to be more aimed at people wanting to take ideas home to hubby. Whereas it did cover that…in graphic detail…it also covered the ‘how to’, ‘where to’ and ‘who to’ aspects of going pro, throughout the afternoon and with plenty of time for questions and specialist advice at the end. I was fascinated by the mix of people who came along too. I loved the fact that there were academics, retail managers, housewives, unemployed and even a couple of escorts! Some people had been in the BDSM scene for a while and some were just curious. The whole session was fun, right from the start, which put everyone at ease. I loved the rope bondage session and am now very keen to get myself some rope to use! I’m looking forward to the Doctors and Nurses Ball…can’t wait…and do please let me know when Mistress Vanessa is opening her dungeon session up to us. Thanks again! Caroline x

Just a note to again say thank you and how much I enjoyed the workshop on Saturday. It has given me a lot of food for thought on developing myself I I want to go pro. The best part that has come out if it so far is that my kinky side has really woken up. I loved learning new skills an ideas and my partner/slave has been getting the benefits of those all weekend long. It was really relaxed, informative and definitely a good giggle here and there too! Hopefully see you at club rub Saturday. Lex.

Hi Kim, I would just like to say a big thank you for Saturday. I thoughly enjoyed the afternoon and learnt a great many things. Thanks Trudie

Many thanks for the very informative and interesting workshop yesterday. I really enjoyed everything as well as both demonstrations. Hope to see you soon at club-rub. Natasha (Saracen)

I thoroughly enjoyed the Mistress Workshop Miss KIM. You were so welcoming and friendly. The information you provided was very thorough and gave me a great sense of which directions to take. Also, many myths were dispelled about the lifestyle. I left with a clear picture of what I wanted and needed to do next. I'm still thinking of a name, but i think i am close! I would recommend it to anyone who is curious! I really did have the greatest time and appreciated the extra attention due to it being a one to one, thank you again for that! Madam Bountiful

I so enjoyed the Mistress Workshop. I was nervous before I got there, the thought of meeting a real life Mistress put me in a tizz as I didn't know what to expect. I really shouldn't have worried Kim is lovely and put me right at ease. It was so good to sit and chat face to face with someone who knows what they are talking about. No question was too stupid and I learned so very much. I feel a lot more confident now I have more knowledge. I'm ready to go and play. If you're thinking about it don't hesitate any longer, do it. Bo x

I attended Miss Kim's Mistress Workshop on Saturday, 27th April 2013 and it was absolutely fantastic, let me tell you. As a newbie to the BDSM scene and having read, watched and devoured everything I could about the subject beforehand, it takes a seasoned professional to lead a group of women through the various aspects of the scene allied to the wonderful world of kinky fetishes. The other Mistresses were very friendly and had a wide range of interests and backgrounds, but the one thing that I noticed was how open the atmosphere was and Miss Kim's flirtatious, yet light touch really brought the subject to life. My personal favourite aspect was the demonstration of erotic spanking and how you can use everyday household items to enhance even the most vanilla of relationships. There was also a talk from the fabulous Ropejester about the history and mechanics of rope work and the couple's deep love of the subject (and for one another!) really shone through.

In conclusion: go for it! Whether you're a home counties housewife seeking kinky thrills, a bored urbanite or simply a woman with a voracious sex life trying to channel it appropriately, it's the course for you. Yours, London Duchess

Just wanted say a huge thank you for Saturday's workshop. I'm so sorry I had to leave early but I think I got lots of great stuff from the afternoon anyway. You've cleared my mind about how I want to proceed on this journey. And you've given me the confidence to be myself and make my new powerful role work for me in my everyday life. What a great job you have to make such huge changes in people's lives. I'm now in the process of making myself 'head of the household'! We're going to out to play on Friday night and I've started preparing our evening. Really really looking forward to it already. Never been so keen before. Toying with the new names now too! The other ladies there were brilliant and I look forward to meeting them again hopefully. And the demos were great. I hadn't really thought through an erotic spanking so he's in for a treat one of these days. And as for Rope Jesters work. Well, for such an unassuming looking and quietly presented person, you'd never know there were such depths of passion and sauciness in there. I've gone from ambivalence about rope work to looking out the next Peer Rope session near me. Many many thanks and hopefully see you again in the not too distant future. Warmest regards, Sue

Hey Kim, Wanted to thank you once again for a fabulous afternoon on Saturday. I was pretty nervous to be honest, coming into the open... but I left feeling confident and bloody liberated. Can't wait to try out a few new tricks! You are an inspiration and very creative, and I loved the humour. The ladies were lovely, and I'm excited to see everyone again at Pedestal. Looking forward to it! Layla xxx

Don't be shy about this. If you think you are a Dom or want to explore it, then as Kim says, "you have to be it". So come to the mistress workshop to confirm and realise who you are. I was apprehensive turning up at the venue, not knowing what to expect at the venue and the fellow attendees. But as soon as I walked in I met Kim and another attendee and immediately felt at ease. Everyone was so warm and friendly. The conversation was free and easy, and grown up. There's nothing to be embarassed about, it's all out there and up for discussion, sometimes at length! As for workshop, I'd also call it group therapy. The hands on demonstrations were excellent, and really provided me with some great tips to try out. Our group were all different kinds of Dom, from professionals to sometime home users to those who just simply want to know more. Kim covered all the areas. Some you may have heard of/tried before and others you didn't really knew about before. She introduced a whole new exciting world to explore. She confirmed things I had thought about before but also helped me understand things and situations that I hadn't been approaching correctly or doing right. Now with the newly gained knowledge, and a few new tools, it makes for very exciting and fun home use. Kim, not only looks the part with her immaculate appearance, she has so much knowledge, tips and tricks, and scenarios to discuss we could have been there well into the night. Brilliant, and we (my hub/sub and I) haven't stopped our secret grinning since. Fab! Mistress R

Dear Kim, Thank you for a informative afternoon and the beginning of my new adventures, particularly your tips on spanking and demo on rope, which I look forward to trying out ;-)!!! I hope to come along to Cub Rub or another evening event. Will be in touch soon and let you know. Thanks Roshni

Hi KIM, Nikki here just to say a big thank you for the Mistress Workshop on Saturday! It was fun and very informative! Your tips are fab and the ladies that were there were lovely and I am sure we will all keep in contact! Thank you for my new name I think it is quirky and very apt! Really looking forward to meeting up at Pedestal, I think it will be a lot of fun and an eye opener! Just need to find something to wear! I could not recommend your workshop highly enough every woman in or out of the scene should go! As knowledge is power! Thanks again Nikki Aka Mistress Lady Bird xxxxxxxxx

Dear Kim, Thank you so much for such an interesting informative day! I really enjoyed your presentation and the company! Look forward to seeing you again at a real fetish night where you can show us around the scene!!! Love Susie x

As stunt bum (for the erotic spanking demo) I got to sit in on Miss Kim's 'hot ticket' Mistress Workshop. There were ladies there from all walks of life, of various ages and there for all sorts of reasons. Miss Kim has a very creative mind, thinking-outside-of-the-box and a great and very important quality of hers is she knows how to have fun. The workshop was laid back, open, imaginative, informative and a giggle! Installing the power of 'The Mistress' within us, amongst the most fascinating of company! Needless to say, afterwards I was given the honour of carrying Miss Kim's props home for her. Once home I noticed my bottom was pleasantly blushing. Many thanks. Becky

I spent a wonderfully informative afternoon with the lovely Kim learning all the in's and out's of becoming a Mistress at her great Mistress Workshop. I would recommend this to anyone who would like to do become a Mistress either professional or for fun. I know also now know the art of erotic spanking 🙂 once again thank you. Miss Adventure.

Thanks Kim it was great to meet you.

I loved the Mistress workshop. It's an absolute must for any budding mistress. Since attending I feel like the sharpest tool in the box. There was definitely something for everyone, even if you've have experience on the scene. The things we learnt can translate into other areas of out lives and the growth was unbelievable. I'm well and truly ready!

Hi Kim, Many thanks for a great day yesterday. You've given me ideas - along with your wonderful tips - and my latest slave has no idea what's coming his way shortly! It was also lovely for me to meet other dommes and I have arranged to keep in contact (and attend an event or two) with a couple of fab ladies. Can't wait! Helen x

Hello Kim, I really enjoyed the Mistress Workshop on Saturday. Its given me a lot of food for thought - and action! It was also great to meet so many lovely ladies. Thank you for all the information! Claire aka Lady Fenella!

Evening Miss Kim, Just wanted to drop a line to say a big thank you for today's workshop. It was fun, you were engaging, it was interesting and I think you have the lovely quality of being able to put people at ease. I also like the email you sent in advance which was very clear with travel itinerary and venue etc. The pub staff were also welcoming and friendly which was a plus. I would like to try out Club Rub sometime, so I will see you again no doubt. Enjoy the Fetish Fair tomorrow. Kind regards, Miss Scarlet (or at least that was my first thoughts for my name today).

Dear Kim, Just a quick note to say how much I enjoyed our mistress training afternoon together. From the initial call you managed to put me totally at ease, which was precisely what I needed. You could not have pitched the session any better - informative, stimulating, surprising, saucy - very, and fun! I left feeling extremely confident and itching to use my new found skills (well, perhaps one or two) on my eagerly awaiting slave of a husband. He's been rather well behaved since. Amazing! If you ever run an intermediate, or dare I say, advanced session please do let me know. I feel my journey has properly begun - I owe you one. Sue x

I had a fab time at Miss Kim's Mistress Workshop, which was full of top tips and great advice. Kim was friendly and down to earth, and I was able to ask her anything. As a newcomer to the scene, I found the workshop to be a really useful introduction and it has given me the confidence to explore further. Highly recommended!" Lucy (aka Mistress Camille) x

Hello Kim, I would like to say, meeting you was a great pleasure. I always enjoy meeting people who I can admire or feel connected with. I wrote a new post on my blog tonight and it was inspired by you. It is not a blog talking about Mistresses but it is a creative story. Your reading at the workshop was inspiring. It is a bit long so if you feel like reading it, please do so when you have time to enjoy it. http://dominaimperium.com/ ( BTW the blog is not .com) thank you for the advice! Here is a Testimonial: There is a moment in ones journey when you find a path to the perfect situation or experience for your world to move forward. Miss Kim has elevated my expectations as to what it means to be a dominate woman, and above that she has created a personalised connection between the attendees and herself. There isn't a better way to learn and improve yourself than when having someone show dedications to teaching the art of domination in a positive and powerful way. I recommend the workshop to anyone wanting to explore for the first time their inner Mistress side or even better yet a refresher course for you to understand what you are really about. It is exciting, fun, interactive and above all sexy. Thank you for a wonderful class Miss Kim. Domina Orchid xxx

Hi Miss Kim, Just wanted to say a big Thank You for your help last Saturday. I definitely learnt loads about not just being a Mistress and being a Domme, but a lot more about BDSM too. I am a total newbie, so was trying to soak in as much information as I could that day. As I mentioned in the other email, it was like a curtain has lifted, or like, my thirst for more has not yet been quenched, hehe. I got a copy of SM101 like you recommended, and wow, it is so so informative. I am nearly a third of the way in, and already I am learning so much about things. Questions I had previously, like, "Is that acceptable? Is that right? Is it just me? Am I wrong to think that?"... The book is such a great resource for answering some of such questions, and making you think about other questions/issues as well. Miss Kim, this weekend has been so enlightening for me. Thank you so much!!! Cheers JJ

The workshop was fantastic. It was great being with a small group of very different women - all wanting to know more about being a mistress. I had a great time - Kim clearly knows her stuff, and was very informative and down to earth. I learned a lot, and the workshop really got me thinking about what sort of mistress i would like to be in my personal relationships. We were given lots of practical tips about things to try out, as well as more emotional issues related to being a mistress - whether personally or professionally. I look forward to attending other workshops. Thanks Kim! Anon x.

Attending the Mistress Workshop in February has unleashed a side to me that i've never felt very confident exposing, however, since then i have been happily exploring my inner Dom. Being my first time at such a workshop, i really didn't know too much about what to expect and so felt a little nervous before arriving at the venue. I really didn't need to worry though, as I entered a room full of women that were there for the same reason as myself. Everyone was friendly, relaxed and open about their experiences and it instantly put my nerves to rest. x

The class itself was hosted by Miss Kim and her passion and energy, not to mention sense of fun created an electric atmosphere and i found myself absorbed by it all. My mind was exposed to sceneario's that I previously hadn't thought of, this of course, is dependent on how into the scene you are. Discovering so much new information for me was quite a learning curve and the demonstration of shibari was excellently portrayed by Bruce of Esinem. My favorite activity, which to my suprise, was spanking; it has given me a whole new angle to look at. By the end of the end of the day, i was feeling inspired and very creative and delighted to have met so many wonderful like-minded ladies and new techniques to take home and test on my slave. Thanks again Miss Kim!

Mistress Caroline, It was Spanktastic!Thank you so much, met some Amazing women, made some great contacts learnt lot's and had a good laugh too, thanks again Kim. Miss Midian x

Hi Kim, I have thoroughly enjoyed your Mistress workshop on Saturday. I wasn't sure what to expect really but I have left with a fascinating insight of exciting world of domination and have met some great people. It was a very fun Saturday afternoon, so thank you Kim! I hope to see you soon in Club Rub. Ms Andy Millington

Hi Miss Kim Your workshop was OMG so freaking wicked! I never sit still and listen for that many hours. I walked in all shy and walked out fierce, whip in hand! Those slaves don't know what's coming. My vanilla friends are 'jel' now. You might be meeting them soon. Much love Miss Barbie xxxx

Had a great time at the workshop. Met some really fun ladies, learned some interesting tricks. It was a very exciting afternoon. Can't wait for the next one. Mizz V and puppy.

Dear Kim, Thanks so very much for the workshop. I saw your email but have been so busy since I have been here that I never found the time to reply. The workshop was great. I think that especially for an absolute beginner it would have been a wonderful introduction that really got them thinking about the lifestyle more. In all honesty for me the most fun part was seeing your toy collection and thinking about what I can add to mine. Warm regards, Ria

Hiya, Just wanted to say a big thank you for the workshop. The amount I learnt was overwhelming but very much what I was hoping for! I believe I have the creativity to take on a more authoritative role - just need to push myself a bit with the confidence. If you see us on Saturday come and say hi. I'd love to buy you a drink to say thanks! Take care, J x

I had a fantastic time at Kim's Mistress Workshop. Kim is warm and welcoming and immensely knowledgeable. I came away with some great tips, more confidence and creativity to help fulfil my potential as a Domme. It was also great to meet the other ladies at the workshop, to share ideas and laughs. I would recommend the workshop to any aspiring Domme or those interested in trying it out. Thank you Kim!

Hi Kim, I immensely enjoyed last Saturday Mistress workshop. It was very well structured and filled with creative and useful tools on how to become a Pro-Dom. Since I've attended your informative workshop I have become more aware of the different types of Mistresses, Slaves, Sub type, and within these categories the diversity of personalities. It had not occurred to me that when a man enjoys receiving pain (Masochist) doesn't mean that he likes to be told what to do or being humiliated.  Another area I like to highlight of the session was the two demonstrations. I found The rope Bondage demo very skilful and the spanking quite Exotic…I highly recommend this beginner Mistress Workshop to any lady out there initiating in this wonderful journey of becoming a Pro-Dom or who wishes to pleasure her partner with endless role plays. Whichever the reason for attending the workshop it will be beneficial for all the parties involve… Josephine.

Dear Miss KimThank you for a fantastic afternoon of kinky education under your fantastic tutelage. I really enjoyed the relaxed atmosphere and broad range of material covering everything from demos of spanking and rope bondage to how to conduct a session and health and safety. You definitely gave me the inspiration to go out and discover my inner Mistress! Thank you again for sharing your knowledge and experience. I had a blast! Lady I x

Sure it was lovely to see you again last Saturday and the workshop was a blast!! It gave a good insight on the many ,different aspects of being a Mistress in a fun, but professional manner and i enjoyed to gather so much information from your experience !It was also very interestingthesee and hear about rope bondage and be with other like-minded ladies ! Fifi

A fascinating, educational and most of all fun morning learning from Miss Kim. As a new user to the BDSM world she made me feel at ease with my many questions :o) In the 3 days since the workshop I have acquired a sub, run a session and got myself into some gorgeous rubber. I found the day truly empowering...bringing out my feminine strength. Thank you Miss Kim! Miss Scorpion

Hi Miss Kim, Yesterday's workshop was great, I learnt a so much from both you and Craig.  I can say for definite that planning and refining the plan to 3 fetishes works wonders. Got a chance to practise this morning when putting a newbie through his paces, I was very impressed by how much I was able to retain rather than going blank. Thank you so much for having me. Asabi

Dear Miss Kim, I cannot thank you enough for the workshop. I was a great introduction to all things Mistress, from the basic principles behind domination and submission to tons of practical. advice. The workshop was a lot of fun, and also very instructional and useful. For instance, I went to my first party a few weeks later, and when a cross-dresser tied on the floor asked me to spank their feet to the sound of Christmas songs, I knew how to proceed! In fact I must have done something right: when I had finished with the cross-dresser, someone else asked me to spank his schoolgirl Bottom. I told him that it would be my first time, and he guided me through it for two hours. A Mistress was born! Now I'll start buying toys, experimenting and researching. It's a whole new world, and I wouldn't have known I had it in me if not for you and your workshop. So thank you! If you ever need anything, give me a ring. As I'm based in Bristol I cannot make it to most of the parties in London, but I will try to fit one in my schedule. I'd love to go to Club RUB, maybe towards the end of January.  In the meantime, I'll add you on FetLife. My name is incompletude. 

I attended Kim's mistress workshop on the 26th July 2014 which was truly a great afternoon and experience.  I was mostly impressed by Kim's vast knowledge on the subject and her willingness to share it with us.  The presentation was excellent, full of useful information and insights of the industry as well as some exciting sections of a spanking demonstration and a rope bondage demonstration.  I have had the best time, met some lovely ladies and learned so much from Kim, I even left with my own Mistress name which Kim carefully helped me decide on.  I highly recommend this workshop to anyone who might be thinking of trying it.

Hi Mistress Kim, I really enjoyed your workshop yesterday, and I have come away with so many ideas of how to have my 24/7 dom lifestyle. You truly are a magnificent person for sharing your knowledge. You are so right it is all about motivation and you truly have given me that. All I need now ts to ensure I stay motivated. lol There are so many benefits to this lifestyle so as long as I keep reminding myself of this I am sure I can keep my motivation going. I hope to see you around, as you have given me more confidence to meet other doms and gain more knowledge. I have every intention of attending club pedestal, I just have to plan it when my daughter is away for the night. I hope to see you there.

I went a long to a one to one mistress workshop with Kim. I found it very interesting & helpful, Kim was very friendly & welcoming which made me feel comfortable throughout. I would definitely recommend & will be visiting Kim again as she's knows what's she's taking about & what she's doing. Thank you, Emma x

Miss Kim really pays attention to detail and tailored our one to one session to my needs, overall a very informative session, I have learnt many technics which I  can't wait to put into practice-I would highly recommend attending Miss Kim's Mistress Workshop to anyone female looking to explore that side of things with their partner. Thank you for great session worth every penny xxxx

Dear Kim, Thanks very much for he wonderful workshop.I had a great time and a little more insight in the world of a Dominatrix. Thank again and hope to see you soon. Madame VOLCANO.

Hey, Thank you so much for a wonderful workshop. You were brill and I left with some great info and tricks! I would very much like to accept your offer to come to Mistress Vanessa's party. I also hope to attend the next Club Rub. Your list of SM tips is fantastic!! You are like a dirty Bear Grylls!! (I do believe he gave himself a sea water enema out of objects he found on the beach). As soon as I have my day off I am going to earn my Blue Peter badge making some filthy tools. Looking forward to seeing you again soon, Jo.x

Mistress Kim, I  kneel in awe of your skills!  Loved, loved, loved your Mistress Workshop...

...came away armed with loads of information, delivered in a fun, informative and skilled method, very accessible to all new and not so new Dommes. The added eye candy and instructive lesson given by Captain Crop, was a particular highlight I have to say, almost made me wish to be a more submissive switch! sigh!  Thank you so much Mistress!  I wish I could join you when you visit Mistress Vanessa, but I look forward to hearing all the highlights! Lots of love and latex, Evelyn, x …now where did I put that brillo pad?

Huge thanks for the workshop last Saturday. Thoroughly enjoyed learning and sharing, and loved being amongst women with such different approaches to dominance. The ideas and tips you shared with us were great, the rope was blissful and I came away feeling much more aware of what I want and how to get it. Definitely worth the journey, and I'd recommend it to any woman exploring BDSM - whatever stage she's at.  Miss Caroline

Hello Kim, I would recommend the Mistress Workshop to anybody. I had a wonderful afternoon, full of useful information, knowledge that I can use with partner or on professional level. Love the demonstrations! Erika xx

I thoroughly enjoyed the Mistress workshop on Saturday. I learned a lot and there were loads of great tips and tricks to help if you are new to Female Domination. I especially loved Santiago's Shibari workshop, it was beautiful and he really explained it well, and it was great that we all got to have a go at tying, and also at being tied. Kim infused the workshop with her sparkly personality and great sense of humour, and I was made to feel very welcome and at ease from the start. I would definitely recommend this experience to any woman wishing to dip her toes into the wonderfully intoxicating world of Femdom. Fun, relaxed, informative and I made some new friends too! Thank you so much. Xx

Couldn't make a group Mistress Workshop with Kim but she very kindly arranged a 1-2-1 one afternoon. Kim is fabulous to meet and is extremely generous sharing her time and expertise with you. She is very welcoming, full of inspiring, deliciously devilish ideas and sage practical advice which made for a hugely worthwhile experience. I had a fair amount of play-time behind me and wanted to find out more about the professional side of Mistress-ing but I'd highly recommend joining one of Kim's Workshops, whatever your motivation may be for learning/trying more or your previous involvement. J x

I won't deny that I was slightly nervous as well as excited about attending Miss Kim's Mistress workshop. I needn't have worried at all! Miss Kim very quickly put us at ease, she is full of fun, inspiration and ideas. It was a brilliant afternoon and gave me the confidence I was lacking in firstly being able to openly talk about the kinds of things I like as well as ideas as how to put them into action. The ropejester was fantastic, again full of ideas and information. I would highly recommend this workshop to anyone interested in exploring what it is to be a Mistress. Thanks Miss Kim, Pandora's box is well and truly open!!! Lady J xxx

Dear Miss Kim, I would just like to say a BIG Thank you for a fantastic 'mistress' workshop on Saturday! I went along totally unaware of what the workshop would involve & a little apprehensive.. Within minutes I'd forgotten any fear & was enjoying it all so much. Not only are you so lovely & friendly, also extremely glam, personable & fun! (forget my previous thoughts of latex clad, heels like spikes, hair pulled taught, eyes like ice & a whip with spikes!!!) I'm laughing!! The afternoon went in a flash! You broke things down & explained all thoroughly., no question was a stupid question at all. We had such a great time and learnt so much, I now know I could confidently be a Mistress of many forms, again so well explained. Thanks also to Rope Jester.. I've never witnessed a length of Rope thrown out like a sensual wave & extension of a body.. I think the entire room was secretly screaming 'tie me tie me' !!! Again what fun & how useful!!! I feel like my eyes are no longer only half open! I'm a fully fledged Rabbit in the headlights! Really, I can't express how great it was & how well put across you made it all! Thank you again & I look forwards to seeing you at Rub club very soon! X

I wanted to say a big thanks for the workshop last Saturday!  It exceeded my expectations!!  I came along to learn how to start as a Pro Domme and had been wondering if the workshop was going to be more aimed at people wanting to take ideas home to hubby.  Whereas it did cover that…in graphic detail…it also covered the ‘how to’, ‘where to’ and ‘who to’ aspects of going pro, throughout the afternoon and with plenty of time for questions and specialist advice at the end.  I was fascinated by the mix of people who came along too.  I loved the fact that there were academics, retail managers, housewives, unemployed and even a couple of escorts!  Some people had been in the BDSM scene for a while and some were just curious.  The whole session was fun, right from the start, which put everyone at ease.  I loved the rope bondage session and am now very keen to get myself some rope to use!   I’m looking forward to the Doctors and Nurses Ball…can’t wait…and do please let me know when Mistress Vanessa is opening her dungeon session up to us. Thanks again! Caroline x

Just a note to again say thank you and how much I enjoyed the workshop on Saturday. It has given me a lot of food for thought on developing myself I I want to go pro. The best part that has come out if it so far is that my kinky side has really woken up. I loved learning new skills an ideas and my partner/slave has been getting the benefits of those all weekend long. It was really relaxed, informative and definitely a good giggle here and there too! Hopefully see you at club rub Saturday. Lex.

Hi Kim, I would just like to say a big thank you for Saturday. I thougughly enjoyed the afternoon and learnt a great many things. Thanks Trudie

Many thanks for the very informative and interesting workshop yesterday. I really enjoyed everything as well as both demonstrations. Hope to see you soon at club-rub. Natasha (Saracen)

I thoroughly enjoyed the Mistress Workshop Miss KIM.  You were so welcoming and friendly.  The information you provided was very thorough and gave me a great sense of which directions to take.  Also, many myths were dispelled about the lifestyle.  I left with a clear picture of what I wanted and needed to do next.  I'm still thinking of a name, but i think i am close!  I would recommend it to anyone who is curious! I really did have the greatest time and appreciated the extra attention due to it being a one to one, thank you again for that! Madam Bountiful

I so enjoyed the Mistress Workshop. I was nervous before I got there, the thought of meeting a real life Mistress put me in a tizz as I didn't know what to expect. I really shouldn't have worried Kim is lovely and put me right at ease. It was so good to sit and chat face to face with someone who knows what they are talking about. No question was too stupid and I learned so very much. I feel a lot more confident now I have more knowledge. I'm ready to go and play. If you're thinking about it don't hesitate any longer, do it. Bo x

I attended Miss Kim's Mistress Workshop on Saturday, 27th April 2013 and it was absolutely fantastic, let me tell you.  As a newbie to the BDSM scene and having read, watched and devoured everything I could about the subject beforehand, it takes a seasoned professional to lead a group of women through the various aspects of the scene allied to the wonderful world of kinky fetishes.  The other Mistresses were very friendly and had a wide range of interests and backgrounds, but the one thing that I noticed was how open the atmosphere was and Miss Kim's flirtatious, yet  light touch really brought the subject to life.  My personal favourite aspect was the demonstration of erotic spanking and how you can use everyday household items to enhance even the most vanilla of relationships.  There was also a talk from the fabulous Ropejester about the history and mechanics of rope work and the couple's deep love of the subject (and for one another!) really shone through.

In conclusion: go for it!  Whether you're a home counties housewife seeking kinky thrills, a bored urbanite or simply a woman with a voracious sex life trying to channel it appropriately, it's the course for you. Yours, London Duchess

Just wanted say a huge thank you for Saturday's workshop.  I'm so sorry I had to leave early but I think I got lots of great stuff from the afternoon anyway.  You've cleared my mind about how I want to proceed on this journey.  And you've given me the confidence to be myself and make my new powerful role work for me in my everyday life.  What a great job you have to make such huge changes in people's lives.  I'm now in the process of making myself 'head of the household'!  We're going to out to play on Friday night and I've started preparing our evening.  Really really looking forward to it already.  Never been so keen before.  Toying with the new names now too!  The other ladies there were brilliant and I look forward to meeting them again hopefully.  And the demos were great.  I hadn't really thought through an erotic spanking so he's in for a treat one of these days. And as for Rope Jesters work.  Well, for such an unassuming looking and quietly presented person, you'd never know there were such depths of passion and sauciness in there.  I've gone from ambivalence about rope work to looking out the next Peer Rope session near me.  Many many thanks and hopefully see you again in the not too distant future. Warmest regards, Sue

Hey Kim, Wanted to thank you once again for a fabulous afternoon on Saturday. I was pretty nervous to be honest, coming into the open... but I left feeling confident and bloody liberated. Can't wait to try out a few new tricks! You are an inspiration and very creative, and I loved the humour. The ladies were lovely, and I'm excited to see everyone again at Pedestal. Looking forward to it! Layla xxx

Don't be shy about this.  If you think you are a Dom or want to explore it, then as Kim says, "you have to be it".  So come to the mistress workshop to confirm and realise who you are.  I was apprehensive turning up at the venue, not knowing what to expect at the venue and the fellow attendees.  But as soon as I walked in I met Kim and another attendee and immediately felt at ease. Everyone was so warm and friendly.  The conversation was free and easy, and grown up.  There's nothing to be embarassed about, it's all out there and up for discussion, sometimes at length!  As for workshop, I'd also call it group therapy.  The hands on demonstrations were excellent, and really provided me with some great tips to try out.  Our group were all different kinds of Dom, from professionals to sometime home users to those who just simply want to know more.  Kim covered all the areas. Some you may have heard of/tried before and others you didn't really knew about before.  She introduced a whole new exciting world to explore. She confirmed things I had thought about before but also helped me understand things and situations that I hadn't been approaching correctly or doing right.  Now with the newly gained knowledge, and a few new tools, it makes for very exciting and fun home use.  Kim, not only looks the part with her immaculate appearance, she has so much knowledge, tips and tricks, and scenarios to discuss we could have been there well into the night. Brilliant, and we (my hub/sub and I) haven't stopped our secret grinning since. Fab!  Mistress R

Dear Kim Thank you for a informative afternoon and the beginning of my new adventures, particularly your tips on spanking and demo on rope, which I look forward to trying out ;-)!!!   I hope to come along to Cub Rub or another evening event. Will be in touch soon and let you know. Thanks Roshni

Dear Kim, Thank you so much for such an interesting informative day!  I really enjoyed your presentation and the company!   Look forward to seeing you again at a real fetish night where you can show us around the scene!!! Love Susie x

As stunt bum (for the erotic spanking demo) I got to sit in on Miss Kim's 'hot ticket' Mistress Workshop. There were ladies there from all walks of life, of various ages and there for all sorts of reasons. Miss Kim has a very creative mind, thinking-outside-of-the-box and a great and very important quality of hers is she knows how to have fun. The workshop was laid back, open, imaginative, informative and a giggle! Installing the power of 'The Mistress' within us, amongst the most fascinating of company! Needless to say, afterwards I was given the honour of carrying Miss Kim's props home for her. Once home I noticed my bottom was pleasantly blushing. Many thanks. Becky

I spent a wonderfully informative afternoon with the lovely Kim learning all the in's and out's of becoming a Mistress at her great Mistress Workshop. I would recommend this to anyone who would like to do become a Mistress either professional or for fun. I know also now know the art of erotic spanking 🙂 once again thank you. Miss Adventure. Thanks Kim it was great to meet you.

I loved the Mistress workshop. It's an absolute must for any budding mistress. Since attending I feel like the sharpest tool in the box. There was definitely something for everyone, even if you've have experience on the scene. The things we learnt can translate into other areas of out lives and the growth was unbelievable. I'm well and truly ready!

Hi Kim, Many thanks for a great day yesterday.  You've given me ideas - along with your wonderful tips - and my latest slave has no idea what's coming his way shortly! It was also lovely for me to meet other dommes and I have arranged to keep in contact (and attend an event or two) with a couple of fab ladies. Can't wait! Helen x

 Hello Kim I really enjoyed the Mistress Workshop on Saturday.  Its given me a lot of food for thought - and action!  It was also great to meet so many lovely ladies. Thank you for all the information! Claire aka Lady Fenella!

Evening Miss Kim Just wanted to drop a line to say a big thank you for today's workshop. It was fun, you were engaging, it was interesting and I think you have the lovely quality of being able to put people at ease. I also like the email you sent in advance which was very clear with travel itinerary and venue etc. The pub staff were also welcoming and friendly which was a plus. I would like to try out Club Rub sometime, so I will see you again no doubt. Enjoy the Fetish Fair tomorrow. Kind regards,  Miss Scarlet (or at least that was my first thoughts for my name today).

Dear Kim, Just a quick note to say how much I enjoyed our mistress training afternoon together. From the initial call you managed to put me totally at ease, which was precisely what I needed. You could not have pitched the session any better - informative, stimulating, surprising, saucy - very, and fun! I left feeling extremely confident and itching to use my new found skills (well, perhaps one or two) on my eagerly awaiting slave of a husband.  He's been rather well behaved since. Amazing!  If you ever run an intermediate, or dare I say, advanced session please do let me know. I feel my journey has properly begun - I owe you one. Sue x

I had a fab time at Miss Kim's Mistress Workshop, which was full of top tips and great advice.  Kim was friendly and down to earth, and I was able to ask her anything.  As a newcomer to the scene, I found the workshop to be a really useful introduction and it has given me the confidence to explore further.  Highly recommended!" Lucy (aka Mistress Camille) x

Hello Kim, I would like to say, meeting you was  a great pleasure. I always enjoy meeting people who I can admire or feel connected with. I wrote a new post on my blog tonight and it was inspired by you. It is not a blog talking about Mistresses but it is a creative story. Your reading at the workshop was inspiring. It is a bit long so if you feel like reading it, please do so when you have time to enjoy it. http://dominaimperium.com/ ( BTW the blog is not .com) thank you for the advice! Here is a Testimonial: There is a moment in ones journey when you find a path to the perfect situation or experience for your world to move forward. Miss Kim has elevated my expectations as to what it means to be a dominate woman, and above that she has created a personalised connection between the attendees and herself. There isn't a better way to learn and improve yourself than when having someone show dedications to teaching the art of domination in a positive and powerful way.  I recommend the workshop to anyone wanting to explore for the first time their inner Mistress side or even better yet a refresher course for you to understand what you are really about. It is exciting, fun, interactive and above all sexy.  Thank you for a wonderful class Miss Kim. Domina Orchid xxx

Hi Miss Kim! Just wanted to say a big Thank You for your help last Saturday. I definitely learnt loads about not just being a Mistress and being a Domme, but a lot more about BDSM too. I am a total newbie, so was trying to soak in as much information as I could that day. As I mentioned in the other email, it was like a curtain has lifted, or like, my thirst for more has not yet been quenched, hehe. I got a copy of SM101 like you recommended, and wow, it is so so informative. I am nearly a third of the way in, and already I am learning so much about things. Questions I had previously, like, "Is that acceptable? Is that right? Is it just me? Am I wrong to think that?"... The book is such a great resource for answering some of such questions, and making you think about other questions/issues as well. Miss Kim, this weekend has been so enlightening for me. Thank you so much!!! Cheers JJ

The workshop was fantastic. It was great being with a small group of very different women -  all wanting to know more about being a mistress. I had a great time - Kim clearly knows her stuff, and was very informative and down to earth. I learned a lot, and the workshop really got me thinking about what sort of mistress i would like to be in my personal relationships. We were given lots of practical tips about things to try out, as well as more emotional issues related to being a mistress - whether personally or professionally. I look forward to attending other workshops. Thanks Kim! Anon x.

Attending the Mistress Workshop in February has unleashed a side to me that i've never felt very confident exposing, however, since then i have been happily exploring my inner Dom. Being my first time at such a workshop, i really didn't know too much about what to expect and so felt a little nervous before arriving at the venue. I really didn't need to worry though, as I entered a room full of women that were there for the same reason as myself. Everyone was friendly, relaxed and open about their experiences and it instantly put my nerves to rest. x

The class itself was hosted by Miss Kim and her passion and energy, not to mention sense of fun created an electric atmosphere and i found myself absorbed by it all. My mind was exposed to sceneario's that I previously hadn't thought of, this of course, is dependent on how into the scene you are. Discovering so much new information for me was quite a learning curve and the demonstration of shibari was excellently portrayed by Bruce of Esinem. My favorite activity, which to my suprise, was spanking; it has given me a whole new angle to look at. By the end of the end of the day, i was feeling inspired and very creative and delighted to have met so many wonderful like-minded ladies and new techniques to take home and test on my slave. Thanks again Miss Kim! Mistress Caroline

It was Spanktastic!Thank you so much, met some Amazing women, made some great contacts learnt lot's and had a good laugh too, thanks again Kim. Miss Midian x

Hi Kim, I have thoroughly enjoyed your Mistress workshop on Saturday. I wasn't sure what to expect really but I have left with a fascinating insight of exciting world of domination and have met some great people. It was a very fun Saturday afternoon, so thank you Kim! I hope to see you soon in Club Rub. Ms Andy Millington

Hi Miss Kim, Your workshop was OMG so freaking wicked! I never sit still and listen for that many hours. I walked in all shy and walked out fierce, whip in hand! Those slaves don't know what's coming. My vanilla friends are 'jel' now. You might be meeting them soon. Much love Miss Barbie xxxx

Had a great time at the workshop. Met some really fun ladies, learned some interesting tricks. It was a very exciting afternoon. Can't wait for the next one. Mizz V and puppy.

Dear Kim,

Thanks so very much for the workshop. I saw your email but have been so busy since I have been here that I never found the time to reply. The workshop was great. I think that especially for an absolute beginner it would have been a wonderful introduction that really got them thinking about the lifestyle more. In all honesty for me the most fun part was seeing your toy collection and thinking about what I can add to mine. Warm regards, Ria

Just wanted to say a big thank you for the workshop. The amount I learnt was overwhelming but very much what I was hoping for! I believe I have the creativity to take on a more authoritative role - just need to push myself a bit with the confidence. If you see us on Saturday come and say hi. I'd love to buy you a drink to say thanks! Take care,  J x

Hello Kim! Thanks a lot for last Saturday, it was amazing! It really is an interesting workshop. I loved the demonstrations, I learnt a lot in a very relax and fun atmosphere! Thank you again. Bye 🙂 Elodie

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