About: misskimrub

Amazing, now I can say that my play space is finally finished. There was something missing from my London E2 dungeon - mirrors! Portable was an absolute must for me as I'm always moving everything around in my space. It's not only my private dungeon, but I also rent it out for content filming days.…

What is a fetish? The word fetish had a distinct meaning 30 years ago, it meant "an habitual erotic response, to an in animate object". Nowadays, it seems to be used for everything from obsessing about politics, to young girls really, really, really liking handbags. Of course, I do realise that life moves on and…

Five years ago was probably the last time I went to the Torture Garden club when it was at the Coronet venue in Elephant and Castle. First time I went to the Torture Garden club was 1990, but it wasn't at the first one. Maybe the second or third. The location was Shepards Bush and…

What Is An Enema? The easiest and simplest way to clean the insides of your bum before strap-on (pegging) play is by using an enema bulb, which can be purchase on Amazon. Or this one is very inexpensive. It can also be done with a gravity-fed water bottle and similar. This is by far the…

Community and education means a lot to me, so I'm going to start and collect interesting BDSM blogs and add them to this page. They will help those on a path to BDSM become enlightenment. I wont be attempting to review them, as I believe there is no right way or wrong way to dominate…

This trip had been organised since last November! However, it wasn't till the day before that I heard my accommodation was a problem. Too late to sort anything else out! I have decided I will be undeterred, and I will go this year, as this Mistress loves Paris! When you have blocked the time off…

Thrilled with my first order from Oxy Shop, I decided to place another one - my second Oxy Shop haul list of items is here. Discount Code for 10% OFF is MISSKIMRUB Investing in your BDSM collection is vital in meeting the needs of all your clients. Especially for a London mistress. Plus I'm a geek…

January is as good as any month to start your maid in training, especially if you are at your second home in Spain, like I am! First day of Maid In Training, is always a day of adjustments. Routine is the key. First day of Maid In Training. Day one: Beverley relaxing as her treat…

Decades passed and I couldn’t work out what my mother R.I.P. had taught me. What life's lessons she had equipped me with. It’s only been since I’ve been on my recent spiritual journey, that I realise it’s been many things. My mother is the boss. A strong powerful woman. My father would agree with that,…

Each year I pick a new focus, new projects and the word for 2023 is community. Past words have included Rich, Great and Educate, this year I want to give back more. My new project is my podcast called 'What Would Kim Do?' The January 2023 one is nearly finished and I hope to make…